Monday, December 13, 2010

:: Keys to a successful Marriage:: PART 1


There are endless elements to success, as well as endless definitions of success. Physical. Mental. Physiological. the list is never ending. To whom it may concern there are few that become most important to each individual. In my own, healthy and successful marriage of only a short 7 months I realize many things I would love to share.

(no specific order)
1. Keep short accounts each and everyday.
-Each individual must know their spouse inside and out. You must learn short fuses and the temper arousing triggers to better live a conflict prevented day. When you come to grasp with the covenantal commitment encountered between you , your spouse, and the divine Lord and Savior you realize that from that day on, this beautifully created woman holds your heart, as well you hold her's. Live each day like its your last and Love every moment because its gone so fast.

2. The way you say it, can "Make it or Break it"

At the beginning of each morning take a few extra second to uplift the value and sacredness of the woman you share life with, go to her, make eye contact, smile, give her a deep meaningful hug and kiss, make her feel that she is all you really need. This lets her know that you are thinking about her, and that she is important to you! At the end of your day even in the midst of stress and or exhaustion, do it again! Let her know that you are glad to be home, and that you're glad she's there.

"I do not have the words to make you understand how powerful this is. I don't know everything about women, but I do know that they are guided by emotion, where we guys run more on logic. Taking the few minutes required to say a proper "Goodbye" or "Hello" will reinforce powerful positive emotions in her, and that, my friend, can only be good for you!"-Squidoo LLC

Remember that Love is a never ending journey and you choose how it ends. Be the Love you wish to receive. Love is about laying it all down for the One you love.

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